Della Blair
Registered Member MBACP
Contact information
- Phone number
- 07827328988
Therapist - Hailsham
Features
- Flexible hours available
- Concessionary rates
About me and my therapy practice
A warm welcome to you.
You may be experiencing emotional distress and searching for a suitable counsellor to work with, I hear you because I've been in the same position too. It can be incredibly overwhelming taking the first step towards counselling, especially if this is your first time accessing therapy.
It isn't easy making the decision of whom to work with, this is why I offer a free 30 minute consultation over the phone. It is the best way for you, as a potential client, to understand whether I will be a good fit for you. The therapeutic relationship is at the heart of how I practice and it is vital you feel safe, comfortable and understood by me as we embark on your counselling journey side-by-side.
Together we will explore what has brought you to therapy, it can often be challenging but you will not be alone. My role is to metaphorically walk beside you and offer you the space to examine and challenge personal difficulties in an environment of trust where you and your experiences will be held and respected.
Practice description
I am a qualified counsellor practicing the Person-Centred Approach. Simply put, this means you are my focus and I recognise you are the best expert in your life. Offering the therapeutic conditions of warmth, empathy, unconditional positive regard and acceptance, I will strive to understand your world as you experience it, without judgement.
What you can expect from me is an active listener, my curiosity, warmth and my down to earth approach.
I work with:
ADHD and autism-related challenges
Anxiety and worry
Depression and low mood
Emotional regulation difficulties
Families experiencing addiction: alcohol & drug misuse
Feeling overwhelmed or stuck
Grief and loss
Identity and self-discovery
Life transitions / adjustments and change
Low self-esteem and confidence
Neurodivergent experiences
Parental stress
Relationship difficulties
Stress and burnout
Trauma and difficult life experiences
I am a qualified practitioner of the Rewind Technique and certified by the International Association for Rewind Trauma Therapy (IARTT) to offer this to clients. Rewind is a bilateral therapy that provides fast and effective treatment for PTSD-diagnosed clients to process traumatic memories. Please use the following link to learn more:
https://www.iartt.com/
I work online and face-to-face with clients in Eastbourne and will soon be adding Hailsham to my in-person counselling locations.
My first session
Our first session together is where you and I will meet and go through our therapeutic contract. This is where I will understand what your expectations or hopes are for counselling and how I, as a Person-Centred therapist, can meet them.
At the end of the session I will invite you to consider how you felt the session went and whether you wish to continue with me. It is always up to you. There are a lot of 'You's' in this paragraph on purpose because You will always be at the centre of this therapeutic relationship.
I very much look forward to meeting you.
What I can help with
Abuse, ADD / ADHD, Addictions, Anxiety, Autism spectrum, Bereavement, Coercive control, Depression, Loss, Menopause, Narcissism, Neurodiversity, Obsessions, OCD, Pet bereavement, Post-traumatic stress, Service veterans, Stalking, Substance Dependency, Trauma
Types of therapy
Creative therapy, Person centred, Relational
Clients I work with
Adults, Older adults, Trainees, Young people
How I deliver therapy
Long term sessions, Long-term face-to-face work, Online therapy, Short term sessions, Short-term face-to-face work, Time-limited